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What if submission was the most radical thing you could do?

Gender-nonconforming writer and kink educator Auntie Vice joins The Erotic Realm for a powerful conversation on erotic resistance, queer identity, and rewriting sexual norms.

We discuss:

• How bisexuality, gender nonconformity, and submissive identity intersect.
• The slap that changed everything—and sparked a feminist reckoning.
• Practical wisdom on writing kink, navigating desire as a public educator, and choosing who to submit to.
• Auntie Vice’s upcoming book on kink & mental health, and why the personal is always political.

Research Book: Techniques of Pleasure: BDSM and the Circuits of Sexuality

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Stay perverted,

Emma

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