Episode Details

Aggressive behavior can be one of the most difficult challenges families face when supporting a person with profound or severe autism.

In this episode of the Autism Labs Podcast, Mike Carr shares his personal experience raising his adult son, Michael, and navigating years of aggressive and challenging behavior.

Mike discusses what his family has learned about applied behavior analysis (ABA), the importance of understanding what happens before a behavior, how our responses can unintentionally reinforce behavior, and why consistency matters across different environments.

He also shares real examples of Michael learning to wait for preferred items, follow everyday instructions, communicate despite limited spoken language, and participate more calmly in daily routines.

The conversation also explores the human side of behavioral support. Mike explains why there are days when fewer demands, patience, and compassion may be more appropriate than pushing through a planned routine.

For parents, caregivers, family members, and professionals supporting autistic children or adults with significant support needs, this episode offers a candid look at the challenges, mistakes, lessons, and progress that can come with long-term caregiving.

Topics include:

• Aggressive behavior in autism
• Profound and severe autism
• ABA and behavior support
• Antecedents, behavior and consequences
• Reinforcement and caregiver responses
• Communication and non-speaking autism
• Teaching waiting and everyday skills
• Consistency across caregivers and environments
• Supporting autistic adults
• The long-term nature of behavior change

This episode reflects Mike's personal parenting experience and the approaches his family and support team have used. Individual behavior support needs vary, and families should work with qualified professionals when developing behavior and safety plans.