Episode Details

In this episode of Don't Be Caught Dead, I sit down with the inspiring Emma Beattie, founder of Before and After Life, to explore the often-avoided topics of death, dying, and grief. Emma is a trailblazer in reimagining how we prepare for and respond to the realities of caring for those at the end of life. With a background in creative strategy and storytelling, she brings a unique lens to the conversation, drawing from her own experiences of loss and her commitment to fostering compassionate communities.

Emma's journey into the world of deathcare began in her childhood in New Zealand, where death was part of everyday life. She shares how her mother’s community work shaped her understanding of death and the importance of being present for one another. As we delve into the nuances of caring, dying, and grieving, Emma highlights the need for a shift in how we approach these topics. She advocates for a more hands-on, participatory approach, encouraging us to engage with our communities and support each other through grief.

Throughout our conversation, we touch on the significance of rituals, the healing power of nature, and the importance of open communication about death. Emma’s insights challenge us to rethink our relationships and embrace the uncomfortable conversations that lead to deeper connection. Whether through community initiatives or personal rituals, Emma inspires us to imagine new ways of honouring life and death — reminding us we’re all in this together.

Key points from our discussion:

• Emma Beattie’s background and how it shaped her approach to death and dying
• The importance of community involvement in caring for the dying and grieving
• How rituals and nature can play a vital role in the grieving process
• The need for open conversations about death to foster deeper connections
• Emma’s insights on how to support one another through the challenges of loss

Resources Mentioned:
Before and After Life Website: https://beforeandafterlife.com.au/ 
Palliative Care New South Wales: Palliative Care NSW: https://palliativecarensw.org.au/
Compassionate Communities Australia: Compassionate Communities: https://compassionatecommunities.au/
Bay FM 99.9: Bay FM: https://www.bayfm.org/shows/re-gard/

Books:
Stephen Jenkinson – Die Wise: https://www.amazon.com/Die-Wise-Manifesto-Sanity-Soul/dp/1583949739
 Molly Carlisle – The Death Talker: https://www.amazon.com/Death-Talker-What-about-death/dp/174257873X
 Atul Gawande – Being Mortal: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/20696006-being-mortal
 Francis Weller – The Wild Edge of Sorrow: https://www.amazon.com/Wild-Edge-Sorrow-Rituals-Renewal/dp/1583949763

Remember: You may not be ready to die, but at least you can be prepared.

Take care,
 Catherine

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