Podcast Episode Details

SWM 151 – AQ – Oral Sex Norms, Fantasy Guilt & Rekindling Passion

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Jan - June 2025 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.

In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:

• Do men enjoy cunnilingus after ejaculation?
• Should I feel bad for refusing oral after anal?
• My spouse says I should accept substitutes for sex
• Feeling unloved due to lack of physical affection
• Guilt over sexual desires shaped by past porn use
• When one spouse wants BDSM and the other doesn't
• Sex is loving but not exciting—can it be fixed?
• Why not have kids in your 40s?
• Survey requests on mutual masturbation and handjobs

Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:

• Have a Question (submit form)
• Sexploration List
• Talking Dirty (ebook)
• Responsive vs Spontaneous Desire (post)
• Desire vs Willingness (post)
• Sexual Frequency (post)
• SWM 125 - Rethinking Duty Sex
• BDSM Forum
• BDSM Survey Results
• Mutual Masturbation Survey Results
• Cunnilingus (glossary)
• Your Definition of Gross Changes (post)
• SWM 147 - Sexual Compatibility
• SWM 150 - Control, Sex, and Marriage
• Becoming More Sexually Engaged (course)
• MarriedDance.com (store)
• CouplesMassageCourses.com (course)
• Marriage Coaching (service)

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