Episode Details

🎙️ Episode 35: For Better or For Worse? Description: On the eve of their 13th wedding anniversary, Mike and Caitlin sit down for a candid, funny, and heartfelt conversation about what they've learned from marriage—especially in the context of outdoor adventures. From backcountry days in Yellowstone to an epic (and slightly disastrous) fishing trip for golden dorado in Argentina, they reflect on how the outdoors shaped their relationship and continues to teach them about partnership, parenting, and perseverance. Along the way, they call on loved ones to share hard-earned marriage wisdom—including both sets of parents, family friends married nearly 70 years, Mike's sister and brother-in-law, and Mike’s brother Matt. The result is a warm, real, and often hilarious tapestry of stories and advice. 🔑 Key Topics: Reflections on 13 years of marriage Spam, side-eyes, and backcountry bonding in Yellowstone An unforgettable golden dorado trip in Argentina (bus delays included) Marriage advice from family: 165+ years of combined experience Outdoor memories with kids and the evolution of a relationship The importance of patience, laughter, and choosing wisely 💬 Guest Voices & Advice: Catherine & Leonard Schott – Married 69 years: "Learn to communicate. Don’t go to bed angry." Mike’s Parents (Memaw & Poppy) – Married 51 years: “Patience. Do things together as a family.” Caitlin’s Parents (Necie & GT) – Married 45+ years: “Support each other. Learn from each other. And laugh.” Kate & Jed – Married 13 years: “Communicate constantly—and avoid double kayaks.” Matt (Mike’s Brother) – Divorced, father of four: “Do whatever you can to keep her happy.” 🐟 Adventure Spotlight: 🎣 Golden Dorado in Argentina A wild ride featuring midnight buses, mystery guides, big fish, broken reels, and last-minute hotel miracles. Lesson: Not every genius plan feels like a good one while it’s unfolding. ❤️ Final Takeaway: Whether it’s fishing flooded rivers, parenting young kids, or navigating life's messy logistics—partnership is about persistence, good humor, and showing up for each other again and again. 📸 Photos & Recipe: Check out the golden dorado catch and anniversary pics at: outdoorruhls.com Wild game and outdoor-inspired recipes: outdoorruhls.com/cooking 📱 Follow & Subscribe: Instagram: @outdoorruhls YouTube: Outdoor Ruhls Podcast Website: outdoorruhls.com