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Recently, Rachel Simmons wrote an article in the Washington Post called Perfectionism among teens is rampant (and we’re not helping).

It is a good reminder how this generation of students faces challenges and opportunities different than ones we faced at their ages — sometimes with stress that we’ve created for them.

Students today have never known a world without internet access, global terrorism, school shootings, economic uncertainty and political unrest. These realities cause many of them to struggle with depression. At the same time, students today have opportunities no other generation has had before them: access to information, new job creation, employment mobility, entrepreneurship opportunities, and social media movements.

So how do we encourage, not stress-out, our students? One way is by our messaging with them. To create encouraging environments, school leaders must learn to see schools through the eyes of students.

With those thoughts in mind, I wanted to share a recent webinar I hosted with my state association on Messaging with Students. It is a focus on how to create welcoming environments, celebrate student success, and enhance communication. Below is a summary of the discussion with some checklists to consider.

Part 1: Ensuring a Welcoming Environment

How do we create environments where all students feel welcome, secure, and encouraged in a culture where many students already feel stressed?

Here some questions you can ask when analyzing your own school’s checklist:

• Do we have signage so students know where they are?
• Are hallways free from clutter and create an encouraging learning environment?
• Have we trained our staff to be welcoming, greeting, and guiding guests?
• Are student schedules printed in advance and school maps available?
• Is the school website updated with a current calendar?
• Have we held orientation meetings for students and parents?
• Have an informative, welcoming email or letter been published to your community?

Part 2: Celebrating Student Success

Celebration begins with mindfulness. Here’s a checklist of ways to assess how you’re supporting celebration:

• Are you looking for moments of learning, joy and success to celebrate?
• How are you sharing those moments of student success through newsletters?
• What creative mottos can you use as a school?
• How can you involve students in the school announcements?
• What routines or rituals can motivate student enthusiasm?
• How can you recognize good deeds and acts of kindness?
• How can students help drive celebration?

Part 3: Communicating with Students

Unless we are willing to listen to our students, we will not be able to know what they need.
Messaging begins with trust. Communicating with students includes:

• Showing dignity and respect to students
• Keeping our messages to them positive