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Back to EpisodesPMP363: Building Stronger, Authentic Relationships with Jen Schwanke and Will Parker
Description
This week Will Parker and Jen Schwanke respond to a listener question submitted several months ago but still relevant today for leaders:
“I’ve been a loyal listener of the Principal Matters podcast and value the insights from both William and Jen. As a new principal of a small school with 125 students and 9 teachers, I’m facing a challenge. The staff has developed a ‘silo mentality’ since the pandemic, and it’s been hard to break. Any tips for authentically fostering stronger relationships among staff and creating a unified team culture?”
Key Discussion Points
Jen’s Strategies
1. Team Consultation:
- Don’t tackle it alone. Assemble a group of teacher leaders and collaborate.
- Identify the Objective: Identify the root causes of the ‘silo mentality.’
- Ask Direct Questions: Ask staff if they’re overwhelmed, disconnected, or unfamiliar with colleagues, and how this can be addressed.
2. Social Gatherings:
- Host casual outings, like a gathering at your home or a park.
- Set an Agenda: A brief meeting, followed by food and socializing.
- Incentivize: Give back time by canceling a less-urgent staff meeting.
3. Community Building in Meetings:
- Sharing Segment: Don’t be the only one talking at your meetings. Start meetings with someone talking about a colleague.
- Focus Areas: Share school, home, extracurriculars, or even quirky facts.
4. Leverage Positive Gossip:
- End-of-Meeting Highlights: Share positive news or achievements about staff members.
- Criteria: Only share information with consent and highlight overlooked successes.
5. Invite Student Involvement:
- Cross-Teacher Projects: Encourage project-based learning initiatives across different teachers or teams.
- Showcase Events: Create daytime events to show off collaborative projects.
Will’s Ideas
1. Intentional Time:
- Equate the time spent together with the strength of relationships.
- Scheduled Gatherings: Plan specific times for team activities that are already built into the schedule.
- Communication: Openly share your heart and vision for a cohesive team.
2. Event-Based Engagement:
- Pre-Event Activities: Tailgate parties or staff dinners are a great way to include staff in the life of the school while building cohesion.
- Sitting Arrangements: Designate areas for staff to sit together at games. Strategize space for them to enjoy time together.
- Time Bonuses: Sending staff home early when possible, especially those caring for pets, aging parents, or young children.
3. Ask Your Staff to Set Norms:
- Valued Practices: Encourage staff to set the commitments everyone can adopt for team meetings and stick to them.
4. Tradition and Culture:
- Traveling Trophies: Employ fun recognitions where teachers and staff recognize each other.
5. Student Participation:
- Meeting Features: Bring students into staff meetings for updates or talent showcases.
- Friendly Competition: Introduce “Houses” or teams among staff for fun contests.
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