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Parenting, Parts, and Repair with Anna Purpero
Season 6 Episode 210
What if the magic in parenting doesn’t happen in the moment you get it right, but in the moment you come back and repair?
This week, I talk with educator, children’s book author, and Self-led parent Anna Purpero, and I just loved this conversation so much. Anna has two little boys and a big heart, and she shares so honestly about what happens when our protectors take over in parenting and how IFS helped her find a new way forward.
We talk about:
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What happens in our bodies when our kids fight (and why we feel like we're in danger)
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Why repair — not perfection — is the real magic
- The power of separating “who I am” from “what I do” in parenting and beyond
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How Anna uses playful language like “my volcano’s bubbling up” to talk to her kids about parts
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Why naming a part doesn’t mean avoiding responsibility...it helps kids (and grownups) take more
- Why real apologies only come after shame has lifted
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How her creative work flowed from her own healing
Anna’s book My Friends Inside is just beautiful. It’s one of those books that speaks to kids and to the little ones inside us. The language is simple, the illustrations are gorgeous, and the heart behind it? So, so good.
Anna recorded a special reading of her book just for our community and Jeff added page spreads to create a whole little experience out of it. You can find that for free exclusively on Substack.
Come meet your parts and maybe a few new friends inside.
About Anna:
Anna Purpero is an educator and children’s book author based in Columbus, OH, where she lives with her partner, Jordan, and their two sons (ages 4 and 6). She draws inspiration from her former high school Language Arts students and the teens she mentored through Paper City Mentoring Project, a nonprofit she co-founded and led as Executive Director. She is currently building on her education, including SEL coursework from Fresno Pacific University and training through the Self-Leadership Collaborative. She hopes to continue to use art to facilitate experiential learning and inspire children to hold tight to their dignity and spark. Her debut picture book, My Friends Inside, is available now!
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