Episode Details

Are you struggling to connect with your children in today’s digital age? In this powerful episode of The Guiding Voice, we are joined by Carlamay Sheremata, a former police officer and school resource officer with over 20 years of experience.

As the author of Youth Truth: Engaging in Conversations That Can Change Lives, Carlamay shares her deep insights into the struggles youth face today—from feeling unheard to navigating the pressures of social media. Learn practical strategies to create a "safe space," show empathy without losing authority, and tackle tough topics like mental health and bullying.

In this video, you’ll learn:

The "Safe Space" Blueprint for building trust with your kids.

Why "zipping your lips" is the best advice for any parent.

The difference between Quality and Quantity time.

How to show Empathy while maintaining clear boundaries.

Carlamay’s Success Mantras and her transition from policing to advocacy.

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Chapters:

00:00 - Introduction: Unlocking Meaningful Conversations

01:25 - Meet Carlamay Sheremata: From Policing to Youth Advocate

02:18 - Rapid Fire Round 1: Curiosity, Future, and Impact

03:50 - The Guiding Voice: Faith and the Holy Spirit

04:31 - 3 Success Mantras: Family, Prayer, and Confidence

05:32 - Why Focus on Youth? Lessons from a School Resource Officer

06:48 - Common Struggles Youth Face: Belonging and Being Heard

09:11 - Why Parents Struggle to Connect in a Hyper-Connected World

11:00 - Creating a Safe Space: Quality Over Quantity

12:28 - Approaching Sensitive Topics: Mental Health and Bullying

14:05 - The Power of "Zipping Your Lips"

15:00 - Practical Empathy: Setting Boundaries with Compassion

16:55 - Transitioning Careers: Leaving the Red Tape Behind

18:05 - Second Rapid Fire Round: Billboard Messages and Brilliance

20:10 - The Most Important Value: Empathy

21:26 - Writing a Book vs. Having a Hard Conversation

22:32 - Advice to Her Younger Self: Don’t Worry What Others Think

23:25 - Final Advice for Parents of Closed-Off Children

25:08 - Trivia: The Reality of Youth Communication Today

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