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How to Create Secure, Lasting Love in a Long-Term Relationship with Dr. Stan Tatkin | 60
Season 4 Episode 60
Shownotes
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The difference between secure attachment and secure functioning
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Why a deep desire for love is underneath all attachment styles
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How shared purpose in your relationship brings you closer
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Why you have to become a whisperer for your partner
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One of Dr. Tatkin’s top ways to create safety for your partner
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The biggest mistake people make in modern dating
Bio
Dr. Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT is a clinician, author, researcher, PACT developer, co-founder of the PACT Institute and an assistant clinical professor at UCLA, David Geffen School of Medicine. He also teaches and supervises family medicine residents at Kaiser Permanente, Woodland Hills, CA.
He maintains a private practice in Southern California and leads PACT programs in
the US and internationally. Dr Tatkin is the author of In Each Other’s Care, We Do, Wired for Love, Your Brain on Love, Relationship Rx, Wired for Dating, What Every Therapist Ought to Know, co-author of Love and War in Intimate Relationships and co-author of Baby Bomb.
Dr. Tatkin received his early training in developmental self and object relations (Masterson Institute), Gestalt, psychodrama, and family systems theory. His private practice specialized for some time in treating adolescents and adults with personality disorders. More recently, his interests turned to psycho-neurobiological theories of human relationship and applying principles of early mother-infant attachment to adult romantic relationships.
Dr. Tatkin was clinical director of Charter Hospital’s intensive outpatient drug and alcohol program and is a former president of the California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists, Ventura County chapter.
He is a veteran member of Allan N. Schore’s study group. He also trained in the Adult Attachment Interview by way of Mary Main and Erik Hesse’s program through UC Berkeley.
Timestamps
00:00:43 - Guest introduction
00:03:58 - The difference between secure attachment and secure functioning
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