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Strength from Suffering

Let me start with this: the enemy wants you to believe that when hard things happen, you're done for. You're weaker. You're broken. That you can't be used by God anymore.

But that's a lie.

The truth is—God uses the hard things. He doesn't waste our pain. In fact, Scripture tells us over and over again that it's through trials that our faith, character, and hope are built.

The God Who Sees You and Knows You

Psalm 139 is one of my favorite passages because it's such a clear reminder: God knows everything about you.

He knows your name.

He knows what you're up against.

He even knows the number of hairs on your head.

Not only is God all-knowing and omnipresent—but He is with you in your heartache. He understands the depths of your pain. He is not far off.

When You're Facing Trouble-Lean in, Don't Run

In our home, we've gone through a season of back-to-back trials. Maybe you're there too. But here's what I've learned: running from pain doesn't produce growth—leaning into it does.

Jesus promised us in John 16:33 that there would be trouble in this world. But He also promised us His peace. Not peace like the world gives—but peace in the midst of chaos.

Endurance is Grown in the Fire

I want you to really let this truth soak in:

"Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials… for you know that the testing of your faith produces endurance." – James 1:2–4

Another translation puts it this way: "Consider it an opportunity for great joy." – NLT

It's not automatic joy—it's an opportunity. A choice. A lens to see your situation through.

That's why we need Scripture deep inside us—it reframes the pain.

What Doesn't Kill You... Can Sanctify You

Yes, this is hard. But what if you started saying: "This is hard—and I love a challenge"?

God allows us to struggle so we can grow the muscles we need—just like a good father teaching a child to walk. He doesn't always swoop in. Instead, He gives us space to build spiritual endurance.

And when endurance grows? Character grows. Hope grows. That's Romans 5. And hope, the Bible says, does not disappoint.

The Danger of Distraction in a Culture that Numbs

One of the biggest traps we face in hard seasons is distraction. Social media. TV. Scrolling. Escaping.

But that doesn't heal. It delays. It numbs.

If we want to grow in God's strength, we must lean in. Let the Scripture simmer in our hearts. Let the pain teach us.

What is the Gift in This Situation?

When things are hard, ask yourself: "What is the gift in this?"

Even if your spouse is rejecting you over and over again… what if this is the exact thing God is using to grow your spiritual resilience?

I tell my boys all the time,