Episode Details

Everyone hopes to experience connection and fun times together as they begin "blending" families…

…but when family time is stressful, their high hopes get snatched away, and instead that time becomes a painful reminder that blending isn't as easy as they thought it might be.

We remember those moments when our hopes for a bonded family were dashed.  And then we started learning about the value of the 1 on 1 strategy for bio relationships.

This strategy is the first step in paving the way to what you really want — and providing the kids with what they really need.

And for many couples, it can be hard to follow through with.  It feels counterproductive and can trigger painful emotions and assumptions.

Many parents and stepparents start to believe some Myths about this 1 on 1 strategy and that robs them of the truth that genuine bonds in their blended family starts with a sense of security in the bio-relationships.

In this episode, we'll reveal the most common myths around this essential strategy and replace them with the counteractive truths so that you can start using this strategy with clarity and confidence!

You'll Discover:

• How biological 1 on 1 connections pave the way for families to blend
• 4 myths that often keep couples stuck in conflict, disconnection, and pain
• 4 counter active truths to focus on as you work toward your family's long-term bonding goals 
• Practical tips for the bio and step-parent
• Why it's so important to handle this issue with care and intentionality as a couple

Resources from this Episode:

• Episode 3:  How to Juggle Personal, Couple and Family Time
• Episode 39:  How to Create Strong Bonds with Resistant Step-Kids
• Episode 72:  The Best Way to Create Healthy, Bonded Relationships
• Episode 21:  What is the Stranded Stranger & Trapped Teammate Experience?
• Episode 93:  How to Overcome Power Struggles When Kids Oppose Your Decision to Remarry
• Episode 59:  Why Are You Stuck in a Parent-Child Allegiance
• Episode 50 about Assertive Communication:  How to Openly Communicate What You Really Want 
• Episode 98:  Is Fear of Being Vulnerable Keeping You From Loving Your Spouse Whole Heartedly?
• Episode 26:  Are You Stuck in a "Competition" with Your Step-Kids?
• Episode 49:  Should Your Highest Priority be Your Marriage…or Your Kids?
• CLICK HERE to schedule a free coaching call with Mike & Kim

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