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Episode 134: "‘My Child Is Not the Problem’: How To Handle Defensive Parenting

• “My son doesn’t lie.”
• “My daughter would never do that.”
• “My child has gotten straight A’s since Kindergarten, so if he got a C it is clearly a problem with the teacher.”
• “He’s only acting this way because he is bored.”

It is so frustrating when a parent gets out their “blamethrower” and blames the teacher, the test, the principal, the classmates, and says that the rules in the handbook are too strict.

We can throw up our hands and say “Oh Well!” Or we can learn more about defensive parenting and what to do about it. On today’s episode of The Private School Leader Podcast, we are going to discuss what to do when a parent says, "My Child Is Not the Problem”: How To Handle Defensive Parenting.

I know that you are super busy, so be sure to listen while you are doing something else. I hope that you will get value from this episode as you serve and lead your school community. Thank you for taking some time out of your day to listen to the podcast!

Thanks for making a difference,

Mark Minkus

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Are any of these statements true about you?

• The "tyranny of the urgent" controls my day, and I start working on my important tasks when the school gets quiet.
• I feel discouraged, lonely, exhausted and stressed out. I'm not sure that my job is sustainable.

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  Published on 7 months, 2 weeks ago