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Back to Episodes071: Sexologist Alexa Andre on The Secret to Relaxing While Receiving Oral, “One Penis Policy”, Biphobia and How to Navigate When One Partner is Less Experienced in Ethical Non Monogamy
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This week, Vee and Elle discuss a range of topics with sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa), a sex therapist and host of the podcast In Bed with Alexa. They cover everything from new couples exploring ethical non-monogamy, to being able to relax into receiving oral (especially as a vulva owner), to navigating bisexuality, and so much more, including:
What advice do you have for a couple in which one partner has more experience than the other in non-monogamy? How can you deal when you’re unsure whether it will work with someone who has no experience with being open? (4:51)
Vulva owners reciving oral: tasting yourself so you’re not worried about how you taste or smell, and the benefit of having a partner who loves natural body odors. (17:07)
Alexa’s secret to relaxing when receiving oral: setting time boundaries! How long do you think it actually takes you to orgasm? Getting over guilt for taking “too long” to orgasm while receiving. (22:49)
Bisexuality and biphobia. How does biphobia show up in non-monogamous spaces? What is “one penis policy”, and how a male partner dictating that their female partner can be with other women but not other men is problematic. The stigma of male-on-male play in swinger spaces and sex parties. (30:11)
The stigma of male-on-male play in swinger spaces and sex parties. Normalizing speaking about bisexuality, especially in men. Watching your male partner give head and deep throating. (34:29)
Alexa’s specialties, and the full range of volume in sex - letting go vocally when coming vs holding your breath and being totally silent. (39:20)
Is it weird to announce it when you orgasm? (41:44)
“Challenge your beliefs and question everything.” What do YOU actually want? The path to a greater sex life. (43:42)
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