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Does This Season of White Lotus Suck? PLUS John Bukaty Interviews Dave PATREON TEASER!
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THESE ARE NOTES ON THE EPISODE - NOT THE TEASER!
π Show Notes:
π§ Childhood Chaos
Born in NYC, nearly died of a staph infection
Fell off a table and cracked his skull at 8 months old
Walked home alone at 3 years old π₯
Deep TV addiction starts young (shoutout to MTV, Different Strokes & Give Me a Break)
π Early Identity Stuff
Shirt chewing, sugar binging, and fake depression for attention
Didnβt want a bar mitzvah: βItβs not your party, itβs my party.β
Too insecure to get lifted in the chair at his own bar mitzvah π¬
Played harmonica in a ska band called The Percolators
πΉ First Drug Stories
First drunk = 16 screwdrivers at summer camp β blackout, vomit, shame
Never got into booze, but took acid at a Dead show before ever trying weed
Eventually... heroin, methadone, weed, and the long road home
π¨ Art, Fear & Flow
MTV intern in high school, obsessed with music and creativity
Paralyzed by fear, self-doubt, and a deep need to be authentic
Big art nerd: Kandinsky, Mondrian, Jackson Pollock, Bob Dylan, Richard Pousette-Dart π¨
π Spirituality, Recovery & the Dopey DNA
Wanted spirituality before he had it
βThe Sunlight of the Spiritβ and the resentment trap
Early recovery = doing it because he had to
Found real connection through service, comedy, and storytelling
ποΈ The Real Dopey
Itβs not just about drugs β itβs love, dumb shit, and keeping people company
Letting your freak flag fly, creating community, and making people laugh
Daveβs dream: Dopey TV show, doc series, global recovery adventures, Keith Richards in a chair at DopeyCon π€
βI just want to make something worth putting in your ears.β
π Final Thoughts
On grief, fatherhood, fear, flow, and evolution
Bukaty calls Dave out on blind spots
Dave: βI like the idea of displacing my father and taking over the apartment.β π
Tribute to Annie Ellie and the Dopey Nation: βIt feeds the show. It is the show.β
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π§Έ Stay Strong Dopey Nation
π And fucking toodles for Chris
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