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Ep.22 Hope and Healing After Betrayal with Annie Finch
Description
In this episode, I sit down with Annie Finch, LMFT, CSAT, and CADC, a therapist at Riviera Therapy in Santa Barbara,CA who specializes in working with individuals navigating betrayal trauma, especially in the context of addiction. Annie shares her background and breaks down what betrayal trauma is, how it impacts people, and why group therapy can be such a meaningful part of the healing journey.
We also talk about cultural dynamics around shame, how therapeutic approaches like EMDR can help, and what recovery can look like for those walking through deep emotional pain. This conversation is full of wisdom, hope, and reminders that healing and transformation are truly possible—even after betrayal. May you walk away with more insight and clarity on how to navigate thru betrayal trauma, whether this is your story or someone else whom you deeply care for.
Recommended sites:
Recommended books:
"The Myth of Normal" by Gabor Mate
"Moving Beyond Betrayal" by Vicki Palmer
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Takeaways:
Betrayal trauma can start as early as childhood.
Addiction often stems from underlying trauma.
Group therapy provides a safe space for healing.
Cultural backgrounds can influence the experience of betrayal.
Shame is a common response to betrayal, especially in certain cultures.
Therapeutic approaches like EMDR can aid in recovery.
Healing can occur with or without the partner's involvement.
Betrayal trauma can lead to questioning one's identity.
Support groups can help individuals feel less alone.
Recovery is a challenging but transformative process.