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“In the end there doesn’t have to be anyone who understands you. There just has to be someone who wants to.” 一段时间过去后，其实你不需要有人了解你，只需要有人愿意去了解你。

（19：46 完整英语的访谈｜English Interview starts at 19:46）

Hello everybody, you are listening to the Fly with Lily podcast here. And then right now beside me is Omar. Omar is visiting me in Taiwan and we just had a couple of days here. He is visiting here and enjoying food and traveling around Taiwan island. And we also talked about doing a podcast together. So we have come up with this idea of like bad first date question. How do we turn them into good first date question? Because I have a lot of students, they want to date foreigners, but they don't know how to. Usually they don't know what to ask. Or the questions I heard were pretty ridiculous. So I would like to help my audience on that. So Omar, say hi to our audience. Hello everyone, glad to be here with you and with Lily. Yay! So, let's get started. Alright.

大家好，你正在收听 Fly with Lily 播客。然后现在在我旁边的是Omar。Omar正在台湾拜访我，我们刚刚在这里待了几天。他正在这里参观，享受美食并环游台湾岛。我们还讨论了一起做一个播客。所以我们想出了糟糕的第一次约会问题的想法。我们如何将它们变成好的初次约会问题？因为我有很多学生，他们想和外国人约会，但他们不知道怎么办。通常他们不知道该问什么。或者我听到的问题非常荒谬。所以我想在这方面帮助我的听众。Omar，向我们的听众问好。大家好，很高兴和你们在一起，和莉莉在一起。耶！那么，让我们开始吧。

1. foreigners 外国人｜Westerners 西方人

2. ridiculous 荒谬

3. audience 听众/观众

Okay, the first one is, usually this is pretty common, women (are) attracted to success. So they want to know, like, how much is your salary? Yeah, so at least in Western culture, that's not really an appropriate question to ask. It's just very personal, and a lot of people may find offense to that. But it still is an important thing to know. But there's a lot of other subtle ways that you can ask that where you'll still get the answer you need, but you won't really offend someone. So a way that you can ask is are, what are your career goals? Or where do you see your career in the next five years? And based on those answers, you can probably ascertain about where that person's career is headed and what kind of lifestyle they live. 

好吧。好的，第一个是，通常这很常见，女性被成功所吸引。所以他们想知道，比如，你的薪水是多少？是的，所以至少在西方文化中，这不是一个合适的问题。这是非常私人的，很多人可能会觉得冒犯。但这仍然是一件重要的事情。但是还有很多其他微妙的方式来问，仍然会得到你需要的答