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If you aren't happy single, you won't be happy taken. Happiness comes from within, not from a relationship status.

如果你单身不快乐，那你有男朋友也不会快乐。快乐是来自内心，而不是来自妳的情感关系状态。

（8:49 完整英语的访谈｜English Interview starts at 8:49）

1.Single 单身

2.Taken 已经有男女朋友/老公老婆，有对象的

3.Within 内心

How do we ask about the past relationship or the current status? Do we just go ahead and ask them, are you married? Do you have a girlfriend? What is a better way for that? Well, hopefully if you're out on a date with somebody, they're not married and have a girlfriend. But you never know these days. So I would say sometimes it's a little forward asking them directly about their ex, especially if you're just getting to know them. A lot of people just kind of, if they're out dating again, they kind of want to move past that. So a better way to ask about that is to ask about their family. So ask about if it's an older person or someone who likely has maybe been in relationships before, someone in their late 20s, 30s, 40s, you can maybe ask if they have any kids. And that will kind of lead you into that discussion where they may just volunteer information of their previous relationship if you really want to know. If it's a younger person, maybe you just ask about their family. Ask about if they have any brothers or sisters for their friends, or things like that. That may come up at that point then as well. And of course, if they make indications about, hey, I got to get home from this date, my wife's waiting for me, then maybe you just should think hard if you want to go out with them again. But there are people who probably can accept this kind of situation. There absolutely are, but I guess that's up to you to decide. Right. 

4.Forward 直接

5.Ex 前任

6.Make indications 表示

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