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Day 21: Describe the last time your heart was overflowing with love.

第二十一天：描述最近一次心里感受到满满的爱的体验？

Hello. You're listening to Fly with Lily. I'm your friend Christian. I'm from Spain and New Zealand. I'm in Chiang Mai now because I'm working and traveling around Southeast Asia. I work as a love mentor. And in my free time, I love rock climbing. My dream is to I'm already living my dream, actually. Today I'm asked a question by Lily, and the question is 23. Yeah. Describe the last time your heart was overflowing with love. That's a beautiful question. Well, it was, like, a really good experience for me. I remember I was in Ireland and I was reading my book. I was in the living room, right? And then at some point, I remember there was this guy that came over and he sat down. He was just I don't know, just in the living room. And at first, I felt this urge to go talk with him, even though I don't know why, but I was like, I distrusted that urge. And I was like, okay, no, let's just like because I thought, maybe he's alone. Maybe he wants to talk with someone, I don't know. But then I was like, no, I mean, this urge feels really weird. So I just let it pass. I let it pass. And then after a while, he opened a shelf from down the I don't know, the seat that he was on. And there were a lot of books. So I started speaking with them, and we were chatting and we were talking about books and we were showing each other's soundtrack list and we were talking about where we came from we were doing and what was interesting is that while all this interaction was happening, I thought, wow, this is love. It's completely uninterested. No one wants anything out of that interaction but disconnect with another human being with no expectations whatsoever. And I thought, wow, if this is not love, what is? Right? And then eventually the woman from the pub crawl came over to pick him up. We said goodbye, and I was left like, wow. Feeling so much love inside. I'm like, wow. For so long, I thought that love had to do with trying to flirt with a girl or with a guy or that dance with another person, but actually realizing that love is mundane and easy and it does not ask anything from you. It's just simply there all the time. So yeah, well, that's it. Thank you for listening.

你好，你正在聆听《与莉莉一起飞》。我是你的朋友克里斯蒂安。我来自西班牙和新西兰。我现在在清迈，因为我正在东南亚工作和旅行。我是一名爱情导师。在我的空闲时间，我喜欢攀岩。我的梦想实际上正在我生活中实现。今天莉莉问了一个问题:描述你的心最后一次充满爱的时刻。那是一个美好的问题。嗯，对我来说真的是一个很好的经历。我记得我当时在爱尔兰，正在看我的书。我在客厅，对吧？然后在某一刻，我记得有个家伙过来坐下。他只是我不知道，只是在客厅。一开始，我感到有这种冲动要去和他说话，尽管我不知道为什么，但我像是不信任那种冲动。我想，也许他一个人。也许他想和别人说话，我不知道。但后来我想，不，我是说，这种冲动感觉很奇怪。所以我就让它过去了。我让它过去。然后过了一会儿，他打开了他坐在下面的一个架子。那里有很多书。所以我开始和他聊天，我们聊天，互相展示彼此的音轨清单，我们谈论我们来自哪里，我们在做什么，有趣的是在所有这些互动发生的时候，我想，哇，这就是爱。它完全没有兴趣。没有人在这次互动中想要得到任何东西，只是与另一个人断开联系，没有任何期望。我想，哇，如果这不是爱，那是什么呢？对吧？然后最终酒吧爬行的女士过来接他。我们道别了，我留下来，感觉心中充满了爱。我就像，哇。很长一段时间以来，我以为爱是试图和一个女孩或一个男孩调情或与另一个人跳舞有关的，但实际上意识到爱是平凡而容易的，它不要求任何你的东西。它只是一直在那里。所以，嗯，就是这样。谢谢你的倾听。