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Ep 10: Aggressive vs Assertive; How Swingers Navigate the Lifestyle
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In this episode, Zack, Josie, Brad and Brittany dive into the art of connecting with other swingers. The ladies offer tips for approaching and interacting with them, without coming off as aggressive. The men share why gauging a woman’s interest is often confusing. They explore the importance of clear communication, reading signals, and advocating for yourself. They each share practical tips that will help you build genuine connections in the lifestyle.
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(00:00:00) Perceptions of Assertive vs Aggressive
(00:09:26) Stress, anxiety, sexual tension and excitement
(00:12:18) Shoot your shot
(00:16:24) When assertiveness is welcomed
(00:18:50) Men want it, too
(00:22:06) What do you need in order to play?
(00:25:47) Singles who pair up to play as couples
(00:27:38) Inexperienced in the lifestyle
(00:29:27) Debriefing after play sessions
(00:30:10) Advocating for yourself
(00:33:36) The Smudge
(00:36:05) It’s different for women than men
(00:38:37) An electric four-way connection
(00:41:26) The majority of men in the lifestyle are respectful
(00:44:13) Approaching & engaging with women
(00:46:35) Signs that indicate they are not interested
(00:50:58) Parting advice
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