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Fighting a narcissist for custody is usually a complex, painful, and grueling process that can take years. Tina Swithin joins Anne to educate and empower victims as they fight for their children in and out of court.

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#Intimidation And More Abuse In A Custody Battle With A Narcissist

A Custody Battle With A Narcissist

When victims of narcissistic abuse start a custody battle, the narcissist might . . .

• Turn family and friends against you, saying you’re crazy, abusive, a bad mom, etc.
• Shame you for putting the children through a divorce
• Threaten to take the children
• Cut off financial support
• Put cameras in your home, car, etc

Expecting more emotional, psychological, and even physical abuse is a must for every woman in a custody battle with a narcissist.

BTR has Certified High Conflict Divorce Coaches, who can help you through the process. Attend a BTR Group Session TODAY.

#2 Lies, Lies & More Lies In A Custody Battle With A Narcissist

Divorcing a narcissist means dealing with lies and manipulation. It can be frustrating to hear the falsehoods and out of the courtroom. Narcissists lie to judges, attorneys, police officers, colleagues. They’ll even lie to your boss, family, friends, and children.

Understanding why they do this is crucial. The BTR.ORG Living Free Workshop explains their behavior and offers strategies to protect yourself during a custody battle.

It’s especially hard when a narcissistic abuser lies to the court. Women often find themselves defending against things they haven’t done.

The Narcissist

Most courts don’t take narcissistic abuse seriously. Many women are treated as if they are crazy, lying, or exaggerating. Knowing this can help women plan ahead.

Victims can:

• Hire a lawyer who understands abuse and trauma
• Talk to a divorce expert, like a BTR Coach, for advice on how to act in court
• Take The BTR.ORG Living Free Workshop

At BTR, we understand the fear that comes with a custody battle against a narcissist. The fear of losing your children can get intense.

Every victim deserves a safe place to ask questions, and connect with others who understand. Betrayal Trauma Recovery Group Sessions meet daily in every time zone.

We’d love to see you in a Group Session TODAY.

Transcript: Fighting A Narcissist For Custody

Anne: Tina Swithin is joining me on today’s episode.I’m so honored that she’s willing to share her story with us.

Tina survived, a category five divorce hurricane, while acting as her own attorney in a high conflict custody battle that turned her family’s life upside down for 10 years. She took shelter from the