Episode Details

In today’s Love U Podcast, I sit down with Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu, the hosts of the hit Datable podcast and authors of How to Be Dateable, to unpack the modern dating landscape. We discuss why so many singles feel stuck, the common traps that keep people from finding love, and how to shift your mindset to create real connection. From the myth of “love on demand” to the dangers of playing relationship chicken, we explore how dating has become more about strategy than sincerity—and why breaking free from these patterns can transform your love life. If you’re tired of swiping, second-guessing, and feeling like dating is a numbers game, this episode will give you the fresh perspective you need to date with confidence and ease.

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About Today’s Guests:
Julie Krafchick & Yue Xu are active daters turned dating insiders, and top influential voices of modern dating, relationships, and connection in the digital world. They’re the authors of How To Be Dateable: The Essential Guide to Finding Your Person and Falling in Love and the co-hosts of the hit podcast Dateable, which has been named one of the top podcasts about modern dating and relationships by the New York Times, The Huffington Post, Oprah Daily, and more. They’re also the hosts and executive producers of the dating experiment show Exit Interview. Julie brings her background in human-centered design and research, while Yue shares her experience as a dating coach.

Where you can find Julie & Yue:
Websites: https://howtobedateable.com/ and https://dateablepodcast.com/
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