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002 | Gross—Oh Wait, I'm Kind of Into It: Raven's Sex Stories
Episode 2
Orgasms, secret kinks, and milk-mouthed first kisses—Raven opens up about discovering pleasure, mastering blowjobs, and learning what truly turns her on.
📈 STATS | 20s heterosexual cis female, she/her pronouns, single, based in Southern California, into: art, science, blowjobs, communication, kink exploration, masturbation, nipple play, oral sex, orgasms, self-pleasure, submission, toys, and vulnerability.
⏰ TIME CODE
00:00 Slumber party sex ed, awkward first kisses, and discovering pleasure later in life
06:13 Never having an orgasm during sex until 28, realizing it wasn’t her fault, and celebrating self-discovery
10:27 Pressure to perform, faking orgasms, and learning to communicate honestly in bed
16:07 Online dating, exploring dom/sub roles, and admitting she might not be into BDSM after all
18:52 Secret kinks, first orgasm from YouTube, and learning self-acceptance through taboo desire
23:03 First kink partner, perfect penis size, and what really gets her off
27:02 Clitoral and nipple sensitivity, favorite toys, and stress-relief masturbation rituals
32:35 Blowjob mastery, deep-throat curiosity, and her signature ball-sucking technique
37:00 Sex noises, biting head-pushers, and establishing clear boundaries
41:14 Cunnilingus confessions, pussy-eating lessons, and the infamous “how to eat pussy” video
44:40 Condom talk, safer sex wisdom, and advice to her younger self
🤩 TOPICS | 69 discovery, accepting fetishes, accidental orgasms, anxiety and arousal, awkward sex education, ball play, BDSM curiosity, best sex toys, biting during oral sex, body awareness, body image and pleasure, blow job confidence, clitoral sensitivity, communication in bed, condom excuses, cunnilingus tips, dating apps and dominance, deep throat curiosity, discovering desire, erotic experimentation, female arousal, female masturbation habits, fingering techniques, first time watching porn, frustrating sex partners, good partner communication, hand and mouth coordination, intimacy pressure, kink acceptance, kink community, learning to say no, late-bloomer sexuality, male moaning, masturbation rituals, morning orgasms, mutual respect in sex, nipple play, oral pleasure skills, partner attention, penis size preferences, porn curiosity, power exchange, pressure to orgasm, real sexual connection, self-exploration, self-pleasure stress relief, sensitive nipples, sex advice, sex communication skills, sex dreams, sex noises, sexual confidence, sexual frustration, sexual pleasure journey, sexual pressure, sexual repression, sexual satisfaction, sexual self-acceptance, sexual self-discovery, sex toy favorites, solo pleasure, stress relief masturbation, tongue strength, turning partners on, unlearning sexual shame, using protection, vaginal stimulation, women’s pleasure, women’s sexual empowerment.
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