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277 | Circle Jerks & Saunas: Robert Brooks Cohen’s Sex Stories
Episode 277
Rob has uncovered many mysteries of bisexuality, including the tension in men’s saunas—he shares how he supports other bi men as a life coach and co-host of the Two Bi Guys podcast.
📈 STATS | 39 white Jewish cis male, queer, bisexual, polyamorous, submissive top switch, married, writer, creator, Los Angeles-based, into: Dominant women, male masturbation parties, group sex, cum, squirting, sauna sex, outdoor sex, bathroom sex, stand-up comedy, storytelling, political art.
⏰ TIME CODE
00:00 How “late” in life bisexual explorations led to embracing his authentic self
07:09 Getting turned on by turn-ons, why he loves collaborating on threesomes, and how he uses those same skills when writing
12:55 Embracing being queer and submissive after early experiences of being Dominant by default in relationships
20:56 How porn and non-reciprocal blowjobs opened the door to coming out
28:24 Exploring bisexuality, non-monogamy, and shedding societal expectations and norms
36:20 Discoveries: circle jerks at summer camp, his cum kink, and the upside of anonymous encounters
45:06 How his “hell yes” philosophy on consent leads to hotter play—especially at masturbation parties
54:35 What it means to be a submissive top
58:27 Discovering anal play: bottoming, eating ass, and being eaten
1:03:38 Wyoh compares cunnilingus to rimming
1:09:38 Navigating performance anxiety while being turned on at queer sex parties
1:15:04 Lube, light impact, edging, and sensitive nipples directly connected to his cock
1:21:33 Discovering how to enjoy (and prepare for) squirting
1:24:11 How sauna sex improved his gaydar
1:31:05 Reducing shame with partners and mutual growth
1:35:41 Supporting queer clients in increasing interpersonal awareness
🤩 TOPICS | Bisexual men, bisexual married men, bisexual visibility, bi curiosity, bisexual shame, bisexual exploration, bi male identity, bisexual dating, bi+ representation, bisexual awareness, blowjob experiences, bottoming, body acceptance, circle jerks, coming out stories, communication and consent, cum kinks, cunnilingus, dominance and submission, edging, emotional intimacy, erotic storytelling, group sex, gay saunas, heteroflexibility, internalized homophobia, jerking off together, kink exploration, late bloomer bisexual, male masturbation parties, masturbation coaching, mutual masturbation, non-monogamy, open relationships, orgasm diversity, pegging curiosity, performance anxiety, pleasure coaching, polyamorous marriage, power dynamics, prostate play, queer masculinity, queer relationships, rimming, role play, self-discovery through sex, sensual communication, sex education gaps, sex parties, sexual shame healing, sharing fantasies, soft cocks, squirting, stand-up comedy about sex, steam room sex, submission and dominance, switch dynamics, tantric intimacy, threesome communication, top and bottom dynamics, Two Bi Guys podcast, visibility and acceptance, vulnerability in sex, writer creativity and sexuality.
🔗 ROBERT LINKS | @robertbrookscohen / @twobiguys / linktr.ee/robertbcohen
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