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292 | Naughty Nasty Taboo: Spike’s Sex Stories
Episode 292
BDSM, Catholic guilt, and a foot fetish—Spike shares how living in a cage for a year helped them become a community-building Dominant with an insatiable thirst for more.
📈 STATS | 37 queer polyamorous gender nonconforming latinx human, they/them/he pronouns, married to partner of 13 years, artist, producer, entertainer, performer, gogo dancer, onlyfans creator, Southern California, into: feet, spit, cages, BDSM, Dominance, submission, drag.
00:00 Feeling love through movement, intimacy, and creating community
02:19 Why Spike loves tall nerds, clumsy weirdos, and lovers who help him learn
05:40 Catholic altar boy guilt and reflecting on shame with partners
07:51 Taking control and inviting audience and partners into play
11:37 Embracing being nasty and a suitcase full of safety
15:23 Discovering sex, reclaiming their body, and post cum clarity
19:56 Survival sex work, living in a cage, and unlocking sexual freedom
26:06 Dominance, secrecy, and tips for topping
31:08 Turned on by dancing for money and attention
34:30 What Spike loves about carnal and casual intimacy
36:36 Highly sensitive nipples and tender sensuality
41:01 Spit, self-flagellation, and casting spells
44:01 Solo toy explorations, strokers, and masturbation climaxes
46:56 Personal and pro partnered play
52:36 Foot play, power dynamics, and leather
58:15 Drag shows, male attention, and trying new things
1:00:52 Loving community, communication, and consent
🤩 TOPICS | BDSM community, altar boy upbringing, anal play, armpit fetish, artistic expression, awakening sexuality, bisexual identity, body positivity, boot worship, breath play parallels, cage training, Catholic upbringing, communication and consent, community building, crossdressing and drag, cultural shame, cum clarity, dancing for money, degradation kink, dominant and submissive dynamics, drag queen performances, emotional aftercare, erotic exploration, feet and foot play, financial domination, flogging rituals, gender expression, go-go dancing, healing through kink, humiliation play, impact play, intimacy and touch, kink education, leather fetish, living in a cage, male-presenting attraction, masturbation rituals, money kink, nipple sensitivity, non-monogamy, oral pleasure, polyamorous relationships, power exchange, priest guilt, queer sexuality, reclaiming pleasure after trauma, ritualistic baths, safety protocols, self-acceptance, self-flagellation, self-pleasure, sensory play, sex education through performance, sex work survival, shame and religion, size difference dynamics, solo play, spit play, spiritual kink, submissive training, taboo desires, tattoo symbolism, teaching consent in nightlife, toy exploration, touch boundaries, trauma healing, trust and vulnerability, undergarment shows, worship dynamics.
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