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11 Questions That May Change Your Life: http://www.clarkdanger.com/download/ What's the one book that will have the biggest impact on your relationships? The 5 Love Languages! Today's book summary and book review: The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman. This book will rock your relationships. If you read only one book that will have biggest impact on your relationships, it's this one! Gary Chapman's amazing relationship book that has influenced millions of couples worldwide for decades. You might also consider getting the full book for this – it's killer! Special note: This book is not just for intimate relationships. The book works great for every relationship you have (co-workers / family / strangers / sales / etc). Here are the best 10 ideas from "The Five Love Languages" by Gary Chapman. GET THE BOOK: http://amzn.to/296REnG

Discover how you can change your life in less than 4-hours. FULL journal mastery course is now live! Learn more here: http://www.mybestjournal.com ★★★ BIG 10 IDEAS ★★★ (2:15) EMOTIONAL LOVE TANK Metaphor like our car has a gas tank, our love life has a love tank. keep this tank full. If we neglect our love tank, we'll start to get bigger problems. we need love… stats show we're not too good at it: 40% of marriages in USA divorce 60% of second 75% of third What's happening? Where do we go wrong? (3:45) DON'T BE IN LOVE Falling in love is the opposite of what we should strive for. That honeymoon style / chick flick / notebook rain make out scene. Dr. M Scott Peck: falling in love is NOT love for three reasons: 1. Not act of will or conscious choice (fall in love with people not compatible with) 2. Effortless. Real love requires work. 3. Not centered on growth of other. Gives us false sense we have arrived / at the peak (8:00) LANGUAGES OF LOVE (LEARN THEM) Quality Time Words of Affirmation Physical Touch Gifts Acts of Service In order for the other person to feel loved, we must understand and speak their love language to them. Otherwise we might as well be speaking in Chinese when they understand English. (10:00) QUALITY TIME This language is all about giving the other person your undivided attention. Most "typical" love language. HOW TO & TIPS: Intentional date night - schedule it in! Avoid routines. Relationship killer. Table topics: http://amzn.to/28LAlse (12:45) WORDS OF AFFIRMATION This love languages uses words to affirm other people. Not just words - but deeper reasons behind them. Give them the "WHY" "I love you" vs. "I love you because….." or "Great job with that project" vs. "Great job with that project - you put a lot of time in it shows" HOW TO & TIPS: Focus on giving one killer compliment x a day. Compliment in presence of peers / brag about them in front of people. No longer "Thank you" it's "Thank you for…." (15:15) GIFTS Not materialistic. Not diamon