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Welcome.

Have a seat on the couch. Plug your headphones in for the dishes. Strap in for the long car ride. Let's chill for a bit.

I'm so happy to have you as part of the 3 Books community. Welcome 3 Bookers! Welcome, Cover to Cover Club Members! And welcome, Secret Club Members. Thank you for being part of our ridiculous conversation over nearly 15 years. I was in my late 30s when I started 3 Books and I'll be in my early 50s when I'm done.

What a joy this pilgrimage has been so far! Just think about the amazing conversations we've had this year. Quentin Tarantino from his writer's studio. Shirley the Nurse in the gas station parking parking lot. Did you like Zafar in Chapter 89? Did you fall in love with Zafar the Hamburger Man like I did? How about Brené Brown, Adam Grant, Georges Saunders, Dave Eggers, Douglas Rushkoff, and Jenny Lawson? It's been a wonderful year. And it's not over. It's just getting better and better.

Today I have someone who Tim Ferriss describes as a "philosopher-operator and poet-recluse of the highest order."

A very apt and astute description.

Because who exactly is Derek Sivers?

Well, he's a guy who's given three TED Talks with over nine million views like: How to Start a Movement, Keep Your Goals to Yourself, and Weird, Or Just Different? (I actually used his TED Talks as part of leadership training at Walmart!) His "first follower" principle was a wonderful introduction in Leadership 101. A three-minute TED Talk substituting for a year in a college lecture hall.

And maybe that's kind of … Derek.

A master distiller boiling things down into their most vital, vital components. His website Sivers.org is like a minimalist website from 1997. Looks like Amazon before they launched graphics. Yet it's extremely functional and absolutely teeming with wisdom.

It's also the only place to get his books!

Yes, books. Many books!

He writes and publishes them on his website. He doesn't care about going through the big publishers and he doesn't care about being available on Amazon.

I just read and recommended Hell Yeah or No: What's Worth Doing in my book club and can't wait to get his new book How To Live.

Sometimes I wish I could write as pithy and wise as Derek. A good example of that is in my most recent book, You Are Awesome, I was looking for a way to open the book and I came across this Taoist fable called The Farmer with One Horse. A couple thousand year old story! I spent so much time looking for the absolute tightest, shortest version of the fable and guess where I ended u