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In this episode, I’m talking about 12 kinds of love—romantic makes up just three of them! If you’re single, guess what? You still have NINE other types of love to celebrate on Valentine’s Day (or any day).

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Love Defined by the Ancient Greeks

According to the ancient Greeks, there are seven types of love that actually fall into different categories. Those Greeks really were amazing scholars and philosphers weren’t they? We still refer to their work today!

3 Kinds of Romantic Love

1. Eros – Passionate Love
This one’s all about attraction, chemistry, butterflies in the stomach—classic romantic love. Think gazing into each other’s eyes, sparks flying, and that intoxicating, can’t-get-enough feeling.

2. Ludus – Flirty, Playful Love
That fun, teasing, early-stage romance kind of love. The fiery spark, the playful texts, the inside jokes. But watch out—sometimes this is just a “flash in the pan” love that burns out fast!

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3. Pragma – Enduring Love
This is the long-haul, mature love that we all hope Eros turns into. It’s the deep, steady connection that weathers life’s ups and downs—growing old together, hand in hand.

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4. Philia – Deep Friendship Love
“Brotherly love”—let’s call this sisterly love! It’s the unbreakable bond of close friendships, built on trust, support, and loyalty.

5. Storge – Family Love
The deep, unconditional love between parents, children, and family members. This love is woven into your DNA—it can be there for life.

6. Philautia – Self-Love
The foundation of a happy life. Loving yourself means prioritizing your well-being, setting boundaries, and treating yourself with kindness and care.

7. Agape – Unconditional Love
Pure, selfless love given without expecting anything in return. This is the love of humanity—acts of kindness, charity, and deep empathy.

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