Episode Details

This week’s episode is extra special as I’m joined by two of my favorite people, Alicia and Kirsta Graf. They are a mother-daughter duo who inspire me deeply. Alicia shares her parenting journey with Kirsta, who has down syndrome, and the lessons she’s learned through adoption, loss, and raising three daughters. Kirsta is truly incredible—funny, joyful, and a shining light. Their story is heartfelt, inspiring, and filled with wisdom.

Here are four key takeaways from this episode:

• Alicia emphasizes treating your family as a team and studying each child to meet their unique needs.  
• Relationships with those a season or two ahead in life can make a big difference in your parenting journey.  
• Kirsta’s journey—graduating from Bethel University, working at the school, and contributing to Jack’s Basket—shows the incredible potential of every child.  
• Parenting is full of surprises and challenges, requiring reliance on God and grace for yourself.  

This conversation is a beautiful reminder of the power of teamwork, grace, and celebrating the unique gifts of each family member. I hope you feel as encouraged as I did!

(06:01) Parenting Insights and Surprises

(11:45) God's Guidance in Parenting

(17:55) Kirsta's College Experience at Bethel University

(23:56) The Impact of College Programs for Special Needs

(30:40) Public Speaking and Personal Growth

(37:04) Reflections on Parenting

(42:45) Advice for Parents

Resources Mentioned

Bethel University BUILD program

Ruby’s Rainbow

Jack’s Basket

Jack’s Basket Instagram

Kirsta’s college drop-off video

The New Language of Toys book

A Word in the Hand book

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