Episode Details

Is Your Definition of Monogamy Killing Your Relationship? | Ep 77

Season 4 Episode 77 Published 1 year, 6 months ago

Description

Monogamy might seem simple on the surface, but is it really? In this episode, I dive into the often-overlooked complexities of what it means to be monogamous, especially in midlife relationships. From historical roots to modern interpretations, I explore how personal experiences and upbringing shape our definitions of fidelity.

I also share personal stories, thought-provoking questions, and tips to help you clarify expectations and strengthen communication with your partner. Whether you’re starting a new relationship or redefining an existing one, this episode is all about creating clarity and connection.

Timestamps:

(01:10) Different perspectives on monogamy
(02:23) A little history about monogamy
(03:34) Why it’s important to clearly define monogamy
(04:38) Why personal boundaries matter—and how to define them
(06:40) What “cheating” means to different people (and why it’s not always clear).
(07:32) Is a "work spouse" considered cheating?
(07:38) Nesting after divorce for the kids’ sake
(07:45) Is attending a sex party without participating a form of cheating?
(09:28) Why monogamy is based on religious models
(09:47) How our upbringing shapes our views on monogamy

Karen Bigman, a Sexual Health Alliance Certified Sex Educator, Life, and Menopause Coach, tackles the often-taboo subject of sexuality with a straightforward and candid approach. We explore the intricacies of sex during perimenopause, post-menopause, and andropause, offering insights and support for all those experiencing these transformative phases.

This podcast is not intended to give medical advice. Karen Bigman is not a medical professional. For any medical questions or issues, please visit your licensed medical provider.

Looking for some fresh perspective on sex in midlife? You can find me here:

Email: karen@taboototruth.com

Website: https://www.taboototruth.com/

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YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@taboototruthpodcast

Karen Bigman, a Sexual Health Alliance Certified Sex Educator, Life, and Menopause Coach, tackles the often-taboo subject of sexuality with a straightforward and candid approach. We explore the intricacies of sex during perimenopause, post-menopause, and andropause, offering insights and support for all those experiencing these transformative phases.

This podcast is not intended to give medical advice. Karen Bigman is not a medical professional. For any medical questions or issues, please visit your licensed medical provider.