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135. When Your Kids Don't Want to Go To the Coparent's House (Divorce Tips)
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In this episode of How Not To Suck at Divorce, we are talking about what so many divorced parents struggle with—kids who resist going to the other parent’s house. We talk about why this happens and offer actionable tips for managing these tough transitions. It’s completely normal for kids to feel conflicted, and in this episode, we break it down and share ways to make those transitions smoother.
We dig into the "EASE" acronym (you'll have to hit play to find out what this is if you don't know) to give you a simple framework for communicating with your child during these moments. We also talk about why setting boundaries is key and how to do it in a way that doesn’t make your child feel torn between parents.
In this episode, you'll learn:
- How to show empathy for your child's feelings
- The importance of setting boundaries and maintaining a calm demeanor during difficult transitions
- How to document issues related to child transitions, especially if they become an ongoing concern
- How to communicate clearly with your co-parent, and when it’s necessary to seek legal advice if the issues persist
No doubt, this sucks. But you got this, and we got you!
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