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How To Create Real, Secure Connection
Covered in this podcast episode:
- The havoc insecurity wreaks on dates and relationships, and how to create secure bonds
- Covert contracts – the transactional idea that if you do what someone else wants, they’ll give you what you want
- The lack of male role models in love
- The poison of expectation, entitlement, judgment, pressure, and resentment
- The story of Steve’s coach telling him: “You’re not yet the kind of guy who gets to have more sex and intimacy”
- What to do when someone doesn’t feel valued or loved
- The ineffectiveness of competition, trying to fix someone, and trying to get needs met
- The power of a mature relationship where compassion, empathy and understanding goes both ways
- How feelings of belonging, vulnerability, and being understood, seen, valued and heard, create incredibly sexy experiences
- The shift from disappointment, disapproval, and dissatisfaction to acceptance, approval, and admiration
- The power of your mind to create more love
- A new way to think about confidence and security
We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you.
It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority.
Most men don't.
They are too busy taking care of everyone else. Too busy minding the store and making the money.
They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life.
But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly.
You can only improve your inside game with other men.
We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man.
Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization.
https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roundtable/
If you're facing possible divorce, we have an online course which is specifically for you - Defuse the Divorce Bomb: https://mojopolis.thinkific.com/courses/HDDB-preview?ref=a53950
What if this next year everything changed for you?
That's what we want for you brother,
We love teaching men these tools - how to be better, how to know who you are, what you stand for, what you want and how to CREATE it in your life through our Masculine Confidence coaching programs. Dan and I are here to guide you on this mission.
https://goodguys2greatmen.com/mens-relationship-coaching/
Steve's book Straight Talk Tools for the Desperate Husband will help you to lead yourself and your relationship back to good health. Understand why your partner acts the way she does toward you and learn how to lead your life in the direction you want it to go. You CAN have the relationship you want, fulfilling all your desires while maintaining love and respect.
https://goodguys2greatmen.com/straight-talk-tools-for-the-desperate-husband/
We also have a free e-book to help men learn how to lose their fear and be more bold in their marriage to create the love and connection they want. Get The Hard to Swallow Truth About Saving Your Marriage: https://goodguys2greatmen.com/
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Published on 1 year ago