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Four Things to Reflect on This Thanksgiving

As Thanksgiving approaches, I find myself drawn to the deeper meanings of this cherished holiday. Beyond the turkey, football, and Black Friday frenzy, Thanksgiving offers a powerful opportunity to pause, reflect, and reconnect with the things that truly matter. While the holiday has evolved over the years, its heart remains the same: gratitude. This year, I’m focusing on four meaningful themes to guide my Thanksgiving experience: the origins of the holiday, the traditions that shape our memories, the importance of gratitude in today’s fast-paced world, and the need to preserve Thanksgiving’s values in a time of increasing consumerism. Each of these offers a reminder of why this holiday continues to hold a special place in our hearts—and how we can reclaim its original purpose amidst the noise of modern life.

What is the original purpose of Thanksgiving involving the Pilgrims?  

Thanksgiving originates from 1621 when the Pilgrims, after enduring immense hardships during their first year in the New World, celebrated their first successful harvest. After losing nearly half their population to starvation and disease, they found hope in their partnership with the Wampanoag tribe. Squanto, a Native American who spoke English, taught the Pilgrims how to plant corn, fish, and survive in the unfamiliar environment. The three-day feast was held in Plymouth and attended by about 50 Pilgrims and 90 Native Americans. This event was not just about food—it was a powerful moment of gratitude to God and a celebration of unity and resilience. Over time, the concept of giving thanks for blessings endured as a cherished tradition. It wasn’t until 1863 that President Abraham Lincoln, in the midst of the Civil War, declared Thanksgiving a national holiday to foster unity and reflection across the nation. Today, it serves as a reminder of collaboration, faith, and survival in the face of hardship.

In the 1960s, didn’t children in elementary school dress up in costume for a day of Thanksgiving before being released for Thanksgiving Break?  

Yes, that was a hallmark of Thanksgiving celebrations in American schools during the 1960s. Students often dressed as Pilgrims and Native Americans, donning handmade costumes like paper hats, bonnets, feathered headdresses, and beaded necklaces. These activities were part of a broader effort to bring history to life, with children reenacting the first Thanksgiving in plays or sharing symbolic foods like popcorn, cranberries, and cornbread. Teachers used these events to teach lessons about gratitude, cooperation, and the early history of America. Often, classrooms would be decorated with turkey cutouts and cornucopias, and the day would end with songs or poems about the spirit of Thanksgiving. These traditions reflected a simpler time when holidays were celebrated with community and creativity. Though many of these customs have faded, they live on as a nostalgic memory of American school culture and its emphasis on shared values and history.

It appears that Thanksgiving has lost its meaning for many and has become nothing more than a massive shopping experience. In fact, it seems to be skipped over, going from Halloween to Christmas.  

I completely agree. Thanksgiving, once a cornerstone of American traditions, has become overshadowed by commercialism. Black Friday has encroached on the holiday itself, with many stores opening their doors on Thanksgiving night, shifting the focus from gratitude and family to shopping and deals. Over the years, the weeks between Halloween and Christmas have seen a decline in Thanksgiving-themed celebrations, with advertisements and decorations jumping straight to Christmas. Additionally, the narratives surrounding Thanksgiving have become increasingly politicized, diluting the focus on unity, reflection, and gratitude. This shift has left many people disconnected from the holiday's original mea