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Monthly one-on-one meetings - we all know we should have them, but we might be less clear about what to discuss. This week we revisit a structure for monthly one-on-one meetings that will take your leadership to the next level.

Hello and welcome to episode 90 of the Leadership Today podcast where each week we tackle one of today's biggest leadership challenges. This week we revisit a structure for monthly one-on-one meetings that will take your leadership to the next level.

For those playing the long game with the Leadership Today podcast, you might recall that we discussed monthly one-on-one meetings way back in August 2018 with episode 4 in the context of performance reviews. I think it's a topic worth revisiting all on its own, because so few leaders have structured one-on-one meetings with their people.

Over the past month I've been running quite a few of our online workshop, The Six Daily Practices of Remote Leadership. Towards the end of the one hour workshop I typically mention that I have examples of one-on-one and team meeting structures, and participants are always keen to take a look. I think as leaders we often want to do the right thing, but we're not sure what the right thing is. The theory is great, but it's even better to look at what all that research ends up looking like in practice. So this week's podcast is extremely practical, and you will want to review the show notes at the Leadership Today website where you can highlight and copy the one-on-one meeting structure. Next week I'll share my monthly team meeting structure.

Now I'm not saying that these structures are perfect for everyone in every situation, but I have road tested them with hundreds of leaders, and also applied them with the people and teams that I lead. They have really helped me to lead effectively, and I'm sure they will do the same for you as well. You are welcome to adapt them to your needs.

I suggest you have a more structured one-on-one meeting each month. You may already be meeting with individuals more often than that, but this structure will help you to make that a little more formal and interactive. Here's an overview of the structure and topics.

What are you currently doing well?

What do you need to work on?

What are your current priorities?

What goals need to be added, removed or updated?

What's getting in the way at work?

How might we address this?

How is your development plan progressing?

What training and development experiences might be beneficial?

Anything else to discuss?

Review action items from previous month

Add any new action items

I share this agenda with people, then ask them to come prepared to our meeting with bullet points under each topic. I also come prepared with my own bullet point thoughts. I'm clear about my intent for the meeting - this is as much about helping them as it is about helping me. It's not a performance review - it's a structured update to help us to work together more effectively.

Let's start with performance. We don't talk about performance enough and, as a result, people are often uncomfortable with performance discussions. Discussing performance each month helps to normalise it. People are expected to come to th