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Back to EpisodesPayoffs & Accidental Rewards: How to Focus on the Right Stuff | Ep. 194
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Have you ever noticed bad behavior increasing the more you attempt to quell it in your child? You might be facing a situation of payoffs, accidental rewards or misplaced “focus fertilizer.” In this episode, Chad Hayenga and Jim Jackson unpack how parents often react and unintentionally reward undesired behavior. They demonstrate how shifting from frustrated reactions to genuine engagement can transform challenging moments into opportunities for connection and growth.
Mentioned in this podcast:
- Discipline That Connects online course – Join or Lead a Small Group!
- Discipline That Connects online course – Special Pricing for Individuals
- James 1:19
- James 3:13
- Romans 2:4
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