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Women Prefer Submissive Roles in Relationships but Not in The Way You Think
In this eye-opening discussion, we explore the complex dynamics of dominance and submission in relationships, challenging popular misconceptions promoted by the "red pill" community. We delve into:
* The misunderstanding of female sexuality and relationship preferences
* The difference between arousal patterns and daily life expectations
* The importance of having a vision and purpose in attracting a partner
* How to approach dating with honesty and efficiency
* The role of ambition and status in attraction
* Strategies for building a strong, synergistic relationship
* The truth about "pickup artist" techniques and why they fail
* Research findings on marital satisfaction and partner preferences
* The concept of tactical honesty in dating and relationships
* Ideas for creating a family culture that supports healthy partnerships
Join us as we unpack these crucial topics and provide practical advice for building meaningful, lasting relationships.
Malcolm Collins: [00:00:00] the urban monoculture will not admit that men and women are different. And then it's like, then explain trans people.
And they're like, oh, what I meant is men and women are fundamentally two totally different things, and you can easily tell which one you are just by how you perceive reality . You know, you're not allowed to admit it in terms of partner dynamics or anything like that. But then the urban monoculture cited so holistically was a feminist movement that a anti feminist bent has twisted the truth that women prefer subservient positions when they're in a relationship with a male to women want a man To like, tell them to shut up and get in the kitchen.
I'd be like, Hey, you get your b***h ass back in the kitchen and make me some pie.
Andrew Tate: I am the commander of this house. Be quiet. Cook.
They're like, Oh, so I just need to be like, that's what dominance is, right?
Malcolm Collins: Dumb a*****e. Have you ever seen like a pickup artist in like real life?
So there is a, a, a bad point of data that a [00:01:00] lot of red pill men get, or a lot of like really sexually active men get which is, Slave women, I'll call them.
So
Oh, yes, okay
Malcolm Collins: Do not confuse what arouses a woman with what she wants from her daily life. Alright? I am sure, if you are a guy, and you are watching this, right, there are things on your computer
Tamura, I miss me something. My computer's hard drive. I need you to dump it in the bathtub and fry it. All done. Please rest in peace, Satoru.
Malcolm Collins: as a man, there are many things that may arouse you that you did not choose to have arouse you, right? You don't want those things that arouse you to be part of your daily life at work. Or among your friend group or you know, in the way that you're raising your kids.
Would you like to know more?
Malcolm Collins: [00:02:00] Hello, Simone. I'm excited to be here with you today. Today, we are going to be talking about Dominance and submissiveness as it relates to gender relationships in males and females and where Groups like the pickup artist and red pill community now keep in mind These are not homogenous communities in terms of their viewpoints But I would say many of the prevailing ideas within these communities got these concepts wrong Which led to them making very big mistakes in terms of how they were engaging with their partners, which You Ultimately led to unproductive, unhappy relationships that broke apart.
Absolutely.
Malcolm Collins: Now, I'm going to read a quote, , a friend of mine wrote this sentence he said there's a Bernian view that this creates an invisible ledger between men and women, stereotypically, where a woman can exchange sex for care and resources.
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