Episode Details

Have you ever loved a dog so deeply that losing them changed who you are?

Not just sadness…
but the quiet emptiness in the house,
the missing routine,
the way your body still listens for paws that aren’t there anymore.

Losing a dog isn’t only grief — it’s a shift in identity, in daily life, in the way you move through the world. And yet, it’s something so many dog parents feel like they’re supposed to handle quietly.

In this episode, Em sits down with therapist and author Douglas Green to talk about the life — and loss — of his heart dog, Shirelle. Together, they reflect on how dogs carry us through depression, loneliness, and life’s hardest seasons, and how grief, guilt, gratitude, and love often exist side by side. It’s an honest conversation about what it really means to bond with a dog so deeply that their absence still shapes you long after they’re gone.

Press play if you need a gentle reminder that your grief makes sense — and you’re not alone in it.

Guest Info:

Order the book: The Teachings of Shirelle🐶

Ask Shirelle for advice: askshirelle.com

Instagram: @douggreenauthor

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This podcast explores real life with dogs — including dog behavior, reactivity, dog anxiety, stress in dogs, fearful dogs, and everyday training challenges. It’s for dog parents who are overwhelmed navigating life with dogs and want a clearer understanding of their dog, practical support, and a stronger bond while creating a calmer daily life with their dogs. Episodes cover canine nutrition, dog body language, dog communication, dog food and behavior, gut health, dog wellness, enrichment for dogs, dog enrichment activities, routines, dog lifestyle, and regulation — so life with your dog can feel calmer, more manageable, and more sustainable. Hosted by a dog trainer, canine nutrition coach, and retired vet tech, the show blends training, nutrition, and enrichment to support and bond with sensitive, anxious, pure-bred, and rescue dogs at home and in real life.

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