Episode Details

Parents of kids with baffling behaviors are CONSTANTLY being judged by others.

How do we get to a point where we don’t care as much about what other people think?

In this episode, we’ll explore:

• Some of the most common judgments that parents of kids with baffling behaviors receive
• How it’s actually not possible to not care at all, but we can care LESS
• Three things we can do so that the judgment from others doesn’t impact us as much as it does now

For a script on how to set boundaries with folks expressing judgment, go to: https://RobynGobbel.com/notcare

Resources mentioned in this podcast:

• How Self-Compassion Changed Things For This Mom {EP 78}
• Influence Behaviors, Not Control {EP 101}
• Is Understanding Behavior Just Excusing It? {EP 109}
• Boundaries With Verbal Aggression With Juliane Taylor Shore {EP 115}
• Secure Relating With Guests Sue & Ann From Therapist Uncensored {EP 175}
• Juliane's Book! :

Underneath every behavior is something happening in the body, specifically in the nervous system. When we support the body first, behavior often begins to shift. Even for kids who don't have a sensory processing disorder! 

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Therapy with Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors- June 1 & 2 in Syracuse, NY RobynGobbel.com/NY

Presence in Practice- July 15, 16, & 17 in Rockford, MI (outside Grand Rapids) RobynGobbel.com/Michigan2026

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