Episode Details

Ever notice your pet act weird when you’re stressed, angry, or frazzled, even when you never said a word? That’s not in your head. Your emotions can change the whole energy in your house, and your pets respond to it fast. 

In this episode, Amy sits down with HeartMath resilience trainer and equine-facilitated coach Amy Budd to break down why your pet “catches” your nervous system, how we accidentally create more reactivity, and the simple reset that helps you calm yourself so your pet can calm down too.

BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL DISCOVER:

• Why your pet reacts to your stress even when it’s not directed at them
• The sneaky way anticipation makes behavior issues worse (reactivity, fear, chaos)
• A quick HeartMath breathing technique to reset your body in real time
• How to stop assigning human motives to pet behavior that’s just…pet behavior

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OTHER LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:
HeartMath Techniques: www.heartmath.org

P.S. You may hear us refer to the show as Starlight Pet Talk during this episode. That was our previous name before we embraced the fur, mess, and mayhem. Same content, just a name that fits better

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Each week, get practical pet parenting advice and expert help for behavior issues, rising pet costs, vet visits, training, and everyday life with dogs and cats.

From puppy biting and cat aggression to separation anxiety, emergency vet decisions, and saving money on pet care, this show helps you cut through the noise and find real solutions.

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