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Your Mojo and How to Handle Her Threats of Divorce
Published 5 years ago
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I often say that one of the biggest factors leading to divorce is a man’s FEAR of divorce.
Why?
Because when we’re scared of anything we tend to screw things up.
With the exception of your life saving instincts on the freeway or when threatened with physical harm, operating from fear usually has a bad outcome.
When it comes to the gut wrenching, anxiety ridden fears of losing your relationship, family and wealth…operating from fear is the worst thing you can do.
I know this first hand.
When it happened to me I went into extreme reaction mode. Pleading, begging, endless talking, demanding, interrogating and bargaining were some of the fearful (and wildly ineffective) things I tried.
Fear was making me crazy and making everything worse.
If you’re a guy who suspects he may be on the road to separation or divorce this article is for you.
Even if you’re just getting the icy cold shoulder, distancing, dismissiveness or disrespect…you need to know how to handle yourself.
Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/goodguys2greatmen-podcast--4650431/support.
In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being.
We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you.
It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority.
Most men don't.
They are too busy taking care of everyone else. Too busy minding the store and making the money.
They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life.
But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly.
You can only improve your inside game with other men.
We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man.
Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization.
https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roun
Why?
Because when we’re scared of anything we tend to screw things up.
With the exception of your life saving instincts on the freeway or when threatened with physical harm, operating from fear usually has a bad outcome.
When it comes to the gut wrenching, anxiety ridden fears of losing your relationship, family and wealth…operating from fear is the worst thing you can do.
I know this first hand.
When it happened to me I went into extreme reaction mode. Pleading, begging, endless talking, demanding, interrogating and bargaining were some of the fearful (and wildly ineffective) things I tried.
Fear was making me crazy and making everything worse.
If you’re a guy who suspects he may be on the road to separation or divorce this article is for you.
Even if you’re just getting the icy cold shoulder, distancing, dismissiveness or disrespect…you need to know how to handle yourself.
Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/goodguys2greatmen-podcast--4650431/support.
In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being.
We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confident and in control even when chaos is going on around you.
It's amazing what you can achieve when you make yourself a priority.
Most men don't.
They are too busy taking care of everyone else. Too busy minding the store and making the money.
They are focused on the "outside game" of winning life.
But their "inside game" of confidence and clarity is suffering badly.
You can only improve your inside game with other men.
We would love to help you become more calm, more strong emotionally and more confident and happy in who you are as a man.
Come and join us, either through 1-on-1 coaching with my colleague Dan Dore or me, or in our group coaching program with other amazing men who are travelling the same path as you right now in our Men's Live Coaching Roundtable. There's an amazing tribe of guys in this group with us, supporting and helping each other through this process of growth and self realization.
https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roun