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Ever felt a stalemate when it came to thinking of stuff to talk about with your spouse? Today's episode will cure you of that! Join us as we dive into specific questions you can ask your spouse that will help you connect on a deep level.

And, as promised on the pod, here are a list of the questions:

Before you talk, here are some questions to ask yourself about your spouse:  

• What is going on?
• What are they feeling? 
• What are they thinking? 

Five Questions to ask one time: 

• What things do I do (or can I do) to make you feel most loved? 
• What activity do we do that you cherish the most and why? 
• What is something romantic I’ve done for you that you liked? 
• What three things have we done in our marriage that you’re most proud of? 
• What do I do that’s the biggest turn-on to you?

Five Questions to ask every week: 

• On a scale of 1-10, how connected do you feel to me and why?  
• How are things going between you and the kids? 
• How are things going between you and your friends? 
• How are you feeling overall? (“what” are you feeing?) 
• What has the Lord been speaking to you?