Episode Details

Okay, let's hash out everything you need to do BEFORE you file for divorce, sounds like fun, huh?

Listen, let us start by saying: mental preparation is crucial and there is NO perfect time for divorce, and every case is different!

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This episode helps you get your head straight if you’re thinking about divorce.

You’re going to hear:

*The Importance of timing in divorce decisions

*Consideration of length of marriage for potential alimony or maintenance

*Permanent support after around 20 years of marriage

*Setting up for success in the next chapter of life after divorce

*Tools for Organizing Expenses and Communication During Divorce

*Impact of job loss or significant career advancement on divorce filing and financial implications

*Retirement and its impact on support and financial division in divorces later in life

*Discussion of prenups, children's ages, length of marriage, employment, and retirement for awareness and discussion with an attorney

*Confidential ways to consult a divorce lawyer, such as through advance consultation fees or using a separate credit card

*Emotional Support During the Divorce Process

*Encouragement to seek professional advice from a divorce attorney to address individual concerns

This episode is for you if you are ready to get your head on straight if you are considering or currently navigating the complexities of divorce and seeking expert advice, support, and camaraderie during this challenging time.

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Guided Divorce Meditations

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Guided Meditations

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