Episode Details

If you are still in a world of coercive control even after separation or you've left a coercive controlling relationship and you are still having difficulty with your ex then this episode is for you. Join us as we shed light on 12 signs that coercive control is still happening even after separation from your ex. Learn about the emotional trenches often dug by abusers post-separation and learn some strategies and gain some knowledge on how to navigate this rough terrain whilst going through the legal process of property settlement and children's custody battles. Learn how coercive control is often only discussed as a thing that occurs whilst living in a relationship with someone, but it can very much continue afterwards in a different but similar way.

We look at accusations of parental alienation, ways you can continue to be controlled and ways to protect yourself from the continuing abuse but also to act smart when it comes to the family law system. With a strapping blend of empathy and practical legal education, Laura and Lyn guide listeners on this liberating quest towards regaining control, breaking free from the abuser's influence and forging a path towards a life abundant with autonomy and peace.

Part 2

Trigger Warning: this episode discusses Coercive Control if you are triggered please call 1800 Respect or Life Line on 13 11 14

Remember, it's important to seek legal advice from a qualified lawyer for your specific situation. While this podcast provides general information pertaining to Australian law, it does not replace personalised legal counsel.

Don't miss out on hearing the answers to the following questions

• What does the court think about it if someone tells their child negative things about the other parent?

• How do you prove parental alienation, and what happens if the court doesn't like the evidence?

• What are the outcomes if the court determines that a person is not child-focused?

• How does the court handle cases where parental alienation is used as a tactic in a coercive control situation?

• Are there ways to protect oneself from accusations of parental alienation?

• What signs of coercive control relate to health and body issues after separation?

• What protections are in place for individuals concerned about the privacy of their mental health records during legal proceedings?

• How can someone overcome the guilt and psychological impact of self-care, especially in the context of accusations from the ex-partner?

• Do jealous accusations continue into the legal post-separation phase, and how do they manifest?

• How can someone deal with the ongoing interference and accusations related to their dating life post-separation?

• Have you left a coercive, controlling relationship but found that it followed you?

• What are the Twelve Signs of Coercive Control after separation?

• How does coercive control of money continue after separation?