Episode Details

In this episode of Too Young To Be Old podcast, hosted by Diane Gilman, we delve into a powerful and deeply personal conversation with Felicity Nicole, author of Pieces of Me and spiritual healer. Felicity shares her journey from witnessing traumatic events as a child to escaping an abusive relationship and transforming into a healer. Diane opens up about her own experiences, shedding light on the cycle of abuse that can impact our lives in unimaginable ways.

This episode provides a powerful insight into the lasting effects of abusive relationships and the strength required to break free and heal. Felicity Nicole's journey from trauma to spiritual healing offers hope and inspiration for those seeking to find peace, love, and a healthier path forward. Don't miss this transformative conversation between Diane Gilman and Felicity Nicole, two remarkable women who have faced adversity and emerged as healers in their own right. Stay tuned for Felicity's upcoming book and explore her profound wisdom on healing and growth.

Growing Up with Trauma

Felicity Nicole, author of "Pieces of Me," recounts her early life where she witnessed her father attempting to murder her mother when she was just 10 years old. Despite the horror of the situation, Felicity's response was unique; instead of panicking, she felt compelled to clean her mother's blood and soothe her. This instinctive desire to heal others from a young age planted the seeds for her future as a spiritual healer.

Perpetuating the Cycle of Abuse 

As Felicity grew older, she found herself repeating the cycle of abuse and entering into an abusive relationship. Diane relates to this struggle, having experienced difficulties in forming healthy relationships due to the toxic environment she grew up in. Felicity reveals how she and her siblings perpetuated the cycle of abuse even after her father left by inflicting pain on each other as they had learned no other way to cope.

Escaping and Breaking Free

Both Felicity and Diane found the strength to escape their abusive situations. Felicity crafted a well-thought-out escape plan from her husband. She emphasizes the importance of mental preparation in such situations. Diane seized an opportunity to flee when she got her car keys from her mother “to go for a drive”. They discuss the fear that lingers even after leaving and the nightmares caused by PTSD.

Healing and Transforming

Felicity shares how she transitioned from being a victim to becoming a healer. Her journey involved embracing accountability, forgiveness, and finding strength in her role as a mother. Diane, too, sought healing and love, finding a partner who helped her put the pieces back together after a lifetime of searching for father figures that were always abusive.

The Twin Flame Connection

Felicity introduces the concept of a twin flame, where two souls come together to heal and grow. She says this is what Diane’s partner was to her. Diane shares that at the beginning of their relationship he was her caretaker but in the end she became his caretaker when he battled cancer.

Advice for Healing and Healthy Relationships

Felicity offers valuable advice on healing from the past and fostering healthy relationships. She encourages listeners to shift their thought processes, dig deep into their feelings, be vulnerable, let down emotional walls, and connect with their higher selves.

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