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How To Rebuild Your Wife's Trust In You
I wrote an article about how to rebuild your wife's trust in you and I thought I would summarize the key points here in this episode.
Here's the article if you want to read it: https://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/john-saves-marriage-jane-not-buying-stvhn/
John and Jane just had a possible turning point in their marriage. After another nasty exchange, John decided to finally stand up for himself and deliver a speech that came right from his heart. He fearlessly spoke his truth for the first time ever in their marriage.
It was bold and it felt good. But he has made a common mistake.
John secretly thought his speech was so good that Jane would respond just as he wanted. He imagined her falling into his arms and crying. Then she would say how much she loved him and that she was sorry. John pictured her saying that she wants more respect, love and passion too. Then they would kiss and go to bed to make the kind of love they used to make. Then they would fall asleep with entangled bodies and big smiles on their faces.
Then John woke up.
“Screw you!” Jane said. “Aren’t you all Mr. cool and calm now? This is all your fault, you know? I don’t know if I can ever trust you. I’m grabbing my pillow and sleeping on the couch.”
John liked his imaginary version of the story much better. “Man” he thought. “What did I do wrong?”
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Steve's book Straight Talk Tools for the Desperate Husband will help you to lead yourself and your relationship back to good health. Understand why your partner acts the way she does toward you and learn how to lead your life in the direction you want it to go. You CAN have the relationship you want, fulfilling all your desires while maintaining love and respect.
http://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys/straight-talk-tools-for-the-desperate-husband/
Published on 2 years, 6 months ago