Episode Details

Epi 209 – Sex After Weight Loss Surgery: Desire, Confidence & Communication | Dr. Bat Sheva Marcus

Sex can be complicated—especially after bariatric surgery. In this raw, empowering episode of Our Sleeved Life Podcast, Kellie and Mel are joined by Dr. Bat Sheva Marcus, internationally recognized sex therapist, certified bariatric coach, and a post-op bariatric patient herself.

🎙️ Together, they explore how body image, hormones, medications, and emotional shifts affect sex and intimacy after weight loss. This is the conversation everyone needs but no one is having.

💡 What You’ll Learn:

🔥 Why Sex Still Matters
Understand the physical and emotional reasons why intimacy is essential, even when it feels awkward post-op.

🧠 Mindset Over Mirror
Learn how to mentally “get in the mood” even if your confidence isn’t at 100%, and why feeling sexy isn’t tied to your size.

💬 Real Talk: Your Questions Answered
Audience-submitted questions include:

Why has my arousal changed after surgery?

Is it normal for stimulation or orgasm to feel different?

How can I feel wanted by my partner again?

💥 The Truth About Scheduling Sex
Dr. Marcus shares why planned intimacy isn’t unromantic—it’s realistic and healthy.

📚 Dr. Bat Sheva Marcus is the author of Satisfaction Guaranteed: How to Have the Sex You’ve Always Wanted—available in the OSLP Amazon Store.
🔗 Learn more about her work: www.drbatsheva.com | @drbatsheva on Instagram

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