Episode Details

Our guest today is my friend John Wineland, joining us for his third appearance. He's a gifted author, teacher, and speaker who, for over a decade, has been leading both men and women in the realms of spiritual intimacy, finding life's purpose, and living in embodiment. 

He teaches worldwide, bringing his vision for a new paradigm of masculine leadership and conscious relationships to those yearning to live in love with wide open hearts. And if you listen to this podcast, that must be you.

John and I talk about the importance of holding space by appointment, managing emotions, the direct line between trust and intimacy, the power of self-inquiry, and the one biggest thing we can focus on with regard to our partners – prioritizing their nervous system over everything. 

And that, my friends, is just the tip of the iceberg. This dialogue runs deep as John is truly a master of his craft. If you’re ready for more of his wisdom, check out his book, From The Core, at lukestorey.com/fromthecore.

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00:04:50 — Catching Up With John Wineland

• John’s social media impersonators
• Influence of David Deida
• Sophia Diaz the Mayan princess
• Influence of Daisaku Ikeda
• Moving the wheels of karma
• Luke’s shadow work
• A look into John’s workshops
• From The Core by John Wineland

00:28:32 — Redefining Authentic Masculinity

• Masculinity as a transmission
• Higher Powered: Autobiography Of A Sex & Love Yogi w/ John Gray #239
• Toxic vs. healthy vs. sacred masculinity
• Practicing grace and patience 
• Holding space by appointment
• 3 pillars of spiritual intimacy 
• Prioritizing your partner's nervous system 

01:01:35 — Synthesis of Sensitivity & Awareness

• The art of relating
• Gottman Method of Relationship Therapy
• Cultivating integrated masculinity 
• Double jeopardy phenomenon
• The power of self-inquiry
• Commenting on the work of Alison Armstrong 
• The masculine’s quest for freedom

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