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Have you ever had someone say something to you about you that, you know, wasn't true, that they said that something happened like you were unkind or that you were mean or whatever. You know, what's really interesting about that is it's called perception. What we think about the world is based on our past experiences, and we project that as a projection onto the world. When someone is talking to you about what they think about you, what they're really saying, is, that's the perception they have because you're similar to something in their past, whether it's true or not. It's their perception, and it's also their reality. Here's the most difficult part. And also the easiest part. The most difficult part is if you disagree with them, you want to change their mind. And that's really hard to do. But here's the fun part, and also the most interesting part. It doesn't matter what they say, really, it doesn't. You get to decide whether you want to play along with him or not. Because no matter what they say what they do. The only thing that really matters is what you think about yourself because your behavior is based on what you think about you, not on what others think about you. I love you. I'm Dan Clark.