Podcast Episode Details

Aella - Sex, Psychedelics, & Enlightenment

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Sex tips, porn revolutions, psychedelics, and enlightenment

Aella writes at knowingless.com. Her posts and tweets provide a unique perspective about the data on sexual kinks and on being an escort & camgirl.

In this episode, Aella talks about:

* her escorting sex tips,

* how tech will change pornography,

* & whether trauma & enlightenment are real

Enjoy!

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Timestamps

Sex Tips - (0:00:21)

Porn-tech Revolutions: Tiktokified Erotica? - (0:02:02)

Trad Christian Life - (0:05:11)

Can you be Naturally Talented at Enlightenment? (0:06:52)

Camgirling, Escort Marketing, & Bulk deals  - (0:09:15)

Sex Work vs Student Loans  - (0:13:25)

Psychedelics and Deconstructive Suffering - (0:15:30)

Aella’s Extreme Reading Addiction -  (0:21:08)

Radically Authentic People are Hot? - (0:27:29)

Some Advice for Making Better Internet Polls - (0:39:32)

Hanging out with Elites - (0:43:59)

Is Trauma Fake? - (0:53:49)

Spawning as a Woman and Being Extremely Weird - (1:07:19)

Boring Podcast Conversations - (1:12:09)

Transcript

Transcript is autogenerated

Dwarkesh Patel 0:00:00

Okay, today I have the pleasure of speaking with Ayela, who needs no introduction.

Aella 0:00:07

So it’s Ayla. Is it actually? Yeah.

Dwarkesh Patel 0:00:10

Okay, gotcha. The first question from Twitter from Nick Camerota.

Aella 0:00:14

It’s about banging, right?

Dwarkesh Patel 0:00:16

It’s right.

Aella 0:00:17

Smashing. As one might do in the dirty.

Dwarkesh Patel 0:00:21

I don’t see it here, but he was basically asking, there’s meditators who are experts, have all kinds of like special tips. He was talking about how they know how to hold their breath or close their eyes in a

Aella 0:00:31

particular way.

Dwarkesh Patel 0:00:32

What do escorts know about sex that the mediocre new doesn’t know?

Aella 0:00:38

Well, I don’t know because like escorts don’t necessarily have more sex. They just have sex with different people. Like if you’re in a community relationship, you’re probably like becoming an expert at your partner. So it’s like, I guess like you’re an expert at like very quickly figuring out so like what a new partner likes. So it’s really dependent. It’s like super dependent on like reading the person. But one is like, don’t assume what they like. Because like for a while, it was like all guys like their balls fondled gently, right? You’d think this is a universal malpreference.

Dwarkesh Patel 0:01:11

It’s not. Well, it’s changed or it just never was?

Aella 0:01:14

Well, some people are just like, get the f**k off my balls. And you’re like, okay. But also like, I don’t know, I like learning how to ride dick. I didn’t really know how to ride dick properly before being an escort. And when I first started escort, it was terrible. I was like, like clumping kind of like in a really unattractive fashion. Maybe something about like, like enthusiasm of b*****b is better than technique or something like more important than technique. Like you don’t have to be the best b*****b giver at all. But if you’re just like, you know, really going to town.

Dwarkesh Patel

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Published on 3 years ago