Episode Details

Navigating the holiday season while living with depression can be overwhelming. In this episode, clinical psychologist Anita and host Terry discuss why the holidays can trigger emotional distress and offer actionable strategies for self-care, boundary-setting, and reclaiming joy. Whether you're facing loneliness, family friction, or fatigue, this conversation provides practical advice to help protect your mental health and make the season more manageable.

Primary Topics Covered:

• Why the holidays are especially hard for those with depression
• The emotional and energy demands of the season
• Setting boundaries with family and managing expectations
• Creative coping tools like the “holiday bingo card”
• How to handle grief and loss during festive times
• The importance of buffer days and self-care rituals

Timestamps:

00:00 - Intro and context for the episode
 01:11 - Why the holidays can be especially difficult
 02:28 - Energy demands and emotional expectations
 03:51 - Family stress and social pressures
 05:32 - Key advice for simplifying the holidays
 07:39 - Navigating holidays alone and redefining traditions
 10:00 - Grieving during the holidays
 11:57 - The “turtle” grief metaphor
 12:13 - Strategies for managing difficult family gatherings
 13:51 - Creating and using the holiday bingo card
 14:38 - Shifting focus with humor and internal rewards
 14:57 - Setting firm boundaries and travel planning
 15:58 - Scheduling a post-holiday buffer day
 16:32 - Respecting your energy and recovery time
 17:03 - Final thoughts and listener call-to-action
 17:46 - Invitation to contribute tips for future episodes

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